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My Response to That Her Campus Article

I came across this article on Her Campus titled “Why I Don’t Give a Sh*t About Your Study Abroad Experience.” I am not the type of person who always needs to comment or respond to things on the Internet, but this one struck a chord in me.

The author, who by the way IS studying abroad in the fall, comes right out of the gate with a bunch of negative, expletive-laden insults to people who have studied abroad. Now, I get it. There is always that annoying person who comes back from study abroad and won’t stop talking about it. I’ve been that person. I still talk about my experience, because I loved it. But if someone is annoyed by it, I’ll stop. 

But what I don’t do is put down other people’s experiences. The author says they don’t have the funds to “blow stacks” and play in Europe for a semester. THIS kills me. Studying abroad is not about blowing stacks (who says that? P. Diddy?). I didn’t “blow stacks.” I made a budget to convince my parents that my semester abroad would not be more expensive than studying at Hofstra for a semester. I lived in cheaper housing, I bought my groceries, I biked and skipped public transportation when I could, I didn’t go out partying or clubbing. I was smart about my money, and I tried to do everything I could in 4 1/2 months without going crazy. I stayed in hostels, took cheap flights, carried only a backpack, skipped out on alcohol. I did not “blow stacks.” Yes, studying abroad is expensive. Even though my tuition was free, it still costs a pretty penny to live in a foreign country for any amount of time. But I didn’t meet anyone who was just out blowing money left and right. Everyone was on some kind of budget. 

The author then starts off a paragraph with, “Furthermore, stop acting so above me.” This is another thing that really gets me. I’ve written before that studying abroad does NOT make you a better person. It can, and I learned so much about myself and others while I was in Amsterdam. But a semester abroad is in no way a ticket to being above anyone else. AT ALL. Some people go abroad and act the same way they do at home, and treat it like a long vacation. That’s fine. Your semester abroad is YOURS- do what you want to do.

I get it. Studying abroad is not for everyone, and I always tell people that. If you can do it and you can afford it, awesome. If you can’t, that’s awesome too! I didn’t plan on studying abroad, I thought it was kind of a waste of a semester for a while. Why not just go on a shorter vacation to one destination? Won’t I miss out on everything at school that semester? But the opportunity to go to Amsterdam was something I couldn’t pass up, and I am grateful to my parents for letting me go.

I agree that there is a certain pretense of coming back from study abroad ‘wiser’ or ‘more cultured,’ and some people are definitely annoying about it. But I, and the people I became friends with abroad, would not look down upon someone because they did not spend a semester in Europe or elsewhere. 

So, that’s my rant. I’m not trying to be one of those people who’s all, “OMG STUDY ABROAD WAS AWESOME WHAT YOU DIDN’T GO WHAT A LOSER.” Moral of the story- just be nice, guys. Everybody has a different college experience, and whether or not that involves studying abroad does. not. matter. 

3 thoughts on “My Response to That Her Campus Article

  1. As a student who’s eager to go abroad for study, I don’t really like the impact this article has. Some people are fortunate enough to go to a different country and study there & some are not. It’s sorta natural thing to talk about it as it’s probably one of their best moments in life. If someone’s getting offended, it’s their own issue. But I understand some people brag about it, which is totally wrong. But other than that, nayyyyyyyy!

    1. That’s how I feel! I have probably bragged a few too many times, but you shouldn’t reject someone’s excitement whether its study abroad or an internship or even just passing a big test.

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